Upcoming Events

First time attendees: In order to attend one of our retreats, you must be referred by a current community member and complete an interview process. If you have any questions or wish to start the process, please submit your information on the contact form. We look forward to hearing from you.

Returning members: If you have not been to a TBS retreat in the past 5 years, we ask that you also submit your information on the contact form so that we can touch base with you.

Remember: If you have a new friend or partner you’d like to invite to TBS, they need to apply as a First Time Attendee. We highly recommend that First Time Attendees have some experience with similar workshops prior to attending their first TBS retreat.

2026 TBS Summer Retreat

Wednesday, July 29 to Sunday, August 2, 2026
Livingston Manor, NY

The Lust Games

What makes you wildly, unapologetically alive?  

Welcome to The Lust Games, where we plunge into the depths of desire and ask:
How much pleasure can you hold? How much are you willing to experience, to share of yourself?  

We'll crown the lustiest among us, celebrate our inner (and outer) hedonists, and explore the edges of what it means to be fully alive. Expect laughter, mischief, dirty jokes, and ecstatic sex magic.  

Playfully over the top and intensely all-in, this is a celebration of being fully human, deeply connected, and gloriously, wildly together.

2026 TBS Fall Retreat

October 1 to October 4, 2026
Greenwich, NY

Being in Service

What does it mean to be in service? To your community? To a partner? To yourself? At this retreat, we’ll explore the many facets of being in service. We’ll explore the edges between giving and receiving and find where they blur. Often there is a focus on giving as service. We will explore how sharing yourself authentically and asking for your desires is also being of service. Can you ask for 100% of what you desire? Are you ready to be served? Are you ready to serve? Could you be a Temple Whore? How about a Pleasure Dom? Let's find out together!

“I never feel more given to
than when you take from me.
When you understand
what joy I feel to care for you.

And you know my giving isn't done
to put you in my debt.
But because I want to
be the love I feel for you.

To receive with grace
may be the greatest giving.
There is no way
I can separate the two.

When you give to me
I give you my receiving.
When you take from me
I feel so given to.”

— From the song “Given To” by Ruth Bebermeyer, often shared at TBS by David Stickell

Intro to TBS

The TBS Board is looking for community members to host these events.

Please contact one of the Board members if you’d like to host!